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Monday, November 28, 2005
To any Miss LonelyHeart out there, here's a glimmer of hope for you to find someone you like, or make someone fall for you! Maybe for me too, huh? Whatever, but here's the good news. Science has proven that prolonged eye contact with your person of interest helps to make him fall in love with you. According to the iVillage article '5 Ways to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You', a Havard psychologist Zick Rubin did a research to discover a scientific method that could accurately measure the intimacy of a romantic relationship. It was found that, couples who are deeply in love with each other gaze at each other in the eye 75% of the time during the experiment, and are much slower withdrawing their gaze from each other when someone intrudes the conversation. What is the link to making someone fall in love with you then? Apparently, when you give him your eyes 75% of the time of conversing, his brain becomes tricked into thinking that he is in love with you. As said, very loving couples gaze at each other alot and so when you do that, he is misled into thinking that he is in love with because he thinks he is gazing at you too. His body will release a love hormone called phenylethylamine (PEA) which causes him to have a sense of well-being and contentment, characteristic of someone in love. The more PEA, the more in love he is with you. Hey presto! You now hold a rein to his crazy heart. Eye contact is a means of communication and a intensely emotional one too. You would have realised that you make eye contact with a stranger or anyone emotionally remote to you for less than one second. Even before half a second is reached, you would have torn your eyes away from that person. Unless you have intense feelings for the person -be it hatred or love- you won't bother even looking at them anyway. It is no wonder that eye-contact is such a powerful flirting tool. If you allow your eyes to lay on the person you like for more than one second, and if he returns the gaze, chances are he's interested in you. Better still if he acknowledges you with a grin! Com'on girls, give the boys an eye, man! Posted by |z|r| at |
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