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Monday, February 06, 2006
Foreword: The entry was the result of an unwilling obligation to participate in some kind of spastic tagging game thanks to Miss Vanessa Oh - oops! (Joking, joking...hehe)  This is my (ideal) man!!!Ideally, my man is 15 years older, a Caucasian, well-built, has sufficient body hair that exudes sheer masculine sensuality. Look at Hugh Jackman. Awww...he oozes so much sex appeal that he makes my heart pound wildly and sends my blood rushing to my nose and threatening to drool through the nostrils. However, due to circumstances, I am forced to give up the dream of ever marrying such a guy and embrace a few down-to-earth qualities I would want in my man. So, I see him as 1. an average-looking guy. Walau, I absolutely don't wanna any girls to hysterically chase after him and go ooohs and ahhs over him because he is just so gorgeous. Oh, but he has to be taller than me and must be lean. I guess, it's pretty easy to qualify this aspect since I am afterall, urm...156 centimetres tall. 2. a sincere and kind person. Oh, I can't stress how much I'd love to have a man who genuinely offers friendship to anyone who seeks it or not. He doesn't bother with ostentatious pretensions to make himself look good. He thinks for other people and helps them if he can. 3. a family-oriented dood. If I am with a guy, I see him as someone who can be a life partner. So, it's imperative that he cares for his family and helps to run it. You know, it really shows when a guy bothers to help to do housework for his momma and wash bras for his sister. Okay, I was kidding the last part. But truth is, I just want a guy who works hard for his family and cares to give hugs and kisses to his kids. 4. a deep-thinker. The philosopher in me likes discussions of intellectually intriguing things. So, this guy has to be a sufficiently mature and analytical thinker who can tolerate my fierce need to ramble about all kinds of deep stuff. 5. a comfortable lover who gives me freedom and independence to explore things outside the relationship. I am wild at heart and I seek adventure in the new and exciting. So if he is too needy and not give me space, he's most probably gonna suffocate me. 6. someone who is independent and self-reliant. He seeks to earn his own merits and money by his effort and intelligence. I totally despise guys who are human leeches, sucking someone else's blood to live a high life. 7. a moderate romantic. Not too unromantic nor too romantic, with enough initiative to spring small surprises occasionally to brighten my day. 8. my best-est friend. I can be myself in front of him and not afraid to be vulnerable towards him. He can look at me when we just wake up and say "Hell, you look horrible!" and still love me like he shall always do. Posted by |z|r| at |
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